Thursday, February 20, 2014
The new dimension
I try to avoid blogging about it for weeks, but I think I should remind myself for these feelings.
I decided to change path in my life. Not to many people surprise, I wasn't too happy recently. I looked sad, frowning, bad face complexion, stressed constantly. So when the time is right (which means I can't take it anymore), I decided and no turning back.
I'm afraid as well, at the same time.
'Never sell yourself low' the boss said.
Even when I decided, he still give me advise like a teacher.
The fact that I made my decision, my decision has affected me in many ways.
most of the time, emotionally.
I didn't imagine I can be so sulky and so regret about my choice.
Before this I can only imagine 2 outcome. I risk my relationship with my mentor, the only way to end this is either he flip, or he'll freeze me from anything else.
Neither of the things he do to me. He treated me extra nice, and everything seems back to last time, when I still enjoyed my work very much.
I try to find one fella who can understand me, but no one.
Maybe my mom can.
My relationship with the boss is very weird, weirdly close and almost like a butler.
I admire him a lot since I was a uni student, he taught me almost everything, and the experience shaped me who I am today. I'm more matured than most of my peers, and from learning I know how to handle people.
I'm still a lizard, too far to become a dragon. But without his teaching I would just stays as a worm.
There's much more than mentorship if you ask me, that's why everything is so hard when I know I will leave him. And the endless conversation and apologetic tone he had, leave me in misery.
When I first started working, many friends given me many 'warnings'. But on the other side, same thing like I told my colleague, from all the trainings, sharpening and scoldings, do you realize you learned something?
No one knows better than me, how much I learned, how much I suffered but how much I felt grateful for the tests. Each test make me feel stronger, each test gained confident.
It's just a time's up button in me, that I think I need to move on, to find a defined path for myself.
I never fail to believe that in the future, road will cross again. Just like how he told me.
I cherish every long conversation we had, and although it's hard, I'm thankful for not giving up on me.
I wished someone could share my feelings.